The Confidence to Focus Inward: Why Your School’s Journey Is Unique
In the world of dance and beyond, it's easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of competition. We often find ourselves glancing sideways, worrying about what others are doing, perhaps even secretly reveling in their missteps. However, I've come to realize that this mindset does us more harm than good. It detracts from our own growth and the positive impact we could be making within our own schools and on the world around us.
The truth is, when we dedicate time to worrying about competing with others or bringing them down, we're not just wasting precious moments; we're also revealing a deeper issue—a lack of confidence. It's an acknowledgment that we see our success as relative rather than absolute, dependent on others' failures rather than our own merits.
But imagine the boundless possibilities if we shifted our focus inward. What if, instead of concerning ourselves with the dance school up the street, we poured our energy into nurturing our own? My philosophy is simple: I don't care what the school up the street is doing. My priority is to focus on what my school needs, on how we can grow, innovate, and provide unparalleled experiences for our students.
Taking pleasure in someone else's failures is a clear sign that we have too much time on our hands—time that could be better spent on self-improvement, on dreaming bigger, and on implementing plans that elevate our own community. It's about fostering an environment where every student feels valued, challenged, and inspired, without the shadow of comparison looming over.
In embracing this approach, we not only enrich our own journey but also contribute to a more supportive and encouraging dance community. Let's turn away from the distractions of competition and comparison, focusing instead on our path, our growth, and the joy that comes from seeing our students and our school thrive.
So, here's to enjoying YOUR journey, to embracing every step, twirl, and leap forward with confidence and joy. Have a great day, and remember, the only journey worth focusing on is your own.
Peace and love, Rhee✌️💕
